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You've
heard the myths about breastfeeding. Here's the truth - new mom's handbook
WHEN IT COMES TO BREASTFEEDING, EVERYONE FROM
YOUR mother's second cousin to your hairstylist will ply you with advice and
opinions. Some of the "wisdom" imparted may be helpful, but chances
are much of it won't be. "There are so many myths surrounding
breastfeeding that it can be hard for women to know what's true and what's
not," says Wendy Haldeman, R.N., M.N., a certified lactation consultant
and co-owner of The Pump Station, a breastfeeding-support center in Santa
Monica, Calif. To help you sort through it all, here are the truths behind some
of the most common myths. By Dana Sullivan Photography by David Martinez
Myth #1: If you have small breasts, you
won't produce enough milk to feed your baby. Truth: Size doesn't matter!
"The breast tissue you need to nurse a baby grows in response to pregnancy
regardless of your breast size," says Judith Lauwers, I.B.C.L.C., a
spokeswoman for the International Lactation Consultant Association. It is in
this so-called functional tissue--rather than in the fatty tissue that is
responsible for breast size--that the milk ducts are located. So rest assured
that whether you're an A or D cup, your breasts are capable of providing your
baby with the milk she needs.
Myth #2: You won't be able to breastfeed
if you've had breast-augmentation or breast-reduction surgery, Truth: Not
necessarily. "These days, implants are usually inserted near the armpit or
under the breast tissue or chest muscle, which shouldn't interfere with
breastfeeding," says Carol Huotari, I.B.C.LC., manager of the Center for
Breastfeeding Information at La Leche League International. On the other hand,
if you had surgery in which the nipple was removed in order to insert the
implant and then reattached, breastfeeding may be hampered, as this procedure
disrupts so many nerves that milk letdown is impaired. In this case, you will
likely need to supplement with formula. Whether you will be able to breastfeed
after breast-reduction surgery also depends on how the procedure was performed.
"If the nipple is left partially attached during the procedure and then
reattached once the unwanted breast tissue has been removed, it's more likely
that you'll be able to breastfeed," Huotari says.
If you have had either type of breast surgery,
be sure to let your pediatrician know so she can keep a close watch on your
baby's weight gain.
Myth #3: You must eat only bland foods
while breastfeeding. Truth: Maybe, maybe not. By the time the foods you eat
have been digested and used to make breast milk, the potentially upsetting
elements have been broken down and shouldn't affect your baby at all. In other
words, if you cat cabbage or broccoli, it's unlikely that it will make your
baby gassy. And it you indulge in some spicy salsa, your baby probably won't
refuse to nurse. As Haldeman of The Pump Station says: "Women in India eat
really hot curry and their babies still breastfeed. And there is research that
shows babies actually prefer garlicky milk." Still, there are a few foods
that do cross into breast milk and upset some babies' stomachs, she says. Among
them are dairy products, soy, peanuts, fish and shellfish.
Many breastfeeding morns swear by the
wait-and-see approach: Don't alter your diet at all and see if your baby has a
problem. If she does seem fussy after you eat certain foods, experiment with
your diet. "If necessary, keep a food diary, and if your baby is fussy two
to 12 hours after you've eaten a certain food, cut it out of your diet for a
while," Huotari says.
Myth #4: You need to nurse every two
hours around the dock--no more, no less--to make sure that your baby gets
enough to eat. Truth: Babies' eating patterns are as individual as those of
their parents. That said, many newborns do naturally fall into an
every-two-hours routine. "'Watch the baby and not the clock' is what we
always emphasize," Haldeman says.
If you're worried that your baby isn't getting
enough to eat, count the number of dirty diapers she has--she should have at
least six wet diapers plus two or three "seedy" stools daily. You can
also schedule a weight check with your pediatrician if you're worried that your
baby isn't getting enough to eat.
Myth #5: If you give your baby bottles
of pumped milk, she will refuse-the breast. Truth: Most babies switch between
breast and bottle with no problem. "As long as you wait until your baby
has mastered breastfeeding [usually at about six weeks] before you offer her a
bottle, she should be willing to switch back and forth," Haldeman says.
She notes, however, that women who limit their babies to one bottle per day
tend to have less of a struggle.
Myth #6: You shouldn't nurse if you have
a blocked duct or breast infection. Truth: Exactly the opposite is true. The
best way to treat a blocked duct is to nurse as often as you can. And the best
way to prevent an infection is to clear a blocked duct. But how do ducts become
blocked in the first place? "It usually happens when the baby's nursing
patterns change and the breast becomes overfull," Lauwers says, "For
instance, when a baby starts taking longer naps, eating solid foods and
sleeping through the night, she may nurse less frequently, which can lead to
blocked ducts."
Besides frequent nursing, applying heat--in the
form of a heating pad or wet washcloth--before nursing can help clear a duct.
Also be sure your bra isn't too constricting; and avoid under-wire bras, as
they can compress ducts.
If you do develop a breast infection--symptoms
include redness and soreness in the breast, a fever and flu-like symptoms--see
your doctor right away, as you'll need to take antibiotics. "But you can
still nurse with a breast infection," Lauwers says. "It's not going
to hurt your baby."
Myth #7: A breastfed baby won't sleep
through the night until she starts eating solids. Truth: Your baby will sleep
through the night when she's ready. And that depends on a number of factors,
such as her size, personality and sleeping patterns. That said, breastfed
babies do need to be fed more frequently than formula-fed babies in the early
months because breast milk is digested more quickly than formula. "But I
would never recommend loading a baby up with formula or feeding solid foods
before she's ready just to get her to sleep," Lauwers says. "As long
as your baby is getting enough to eat, she'll sleep for as long as she's meant
to sleep."
Myth #8: Breastfeeding is a reliable
form of birth control. Truth: If you're not ready to be pregnant again, don't
rely on breastfeeding for birth control. However, if you're breastfeeding
exclusively (and that means frequently, day and night), if your baby is younger
than 6 months and if your period hasn't resumed, the so-called lactation
amenorrhea method can be 98 percent effective in preventing pregnancy.
"But if all three of those criteria are not met, or if you're letting your
baby use a pacifier [which can make a baby suck less often or less intensely
when on the breast, in turn affecting your hormone production], breastfeeding
should not be used as contraception," Lauwers says.
Myth #9: Once you go back to work,
you'll have to wean. Truth: Hogwash! "If you commit to pumping, yon can
give your baby breast milk for as long as you wish," Haldeman says. This
involves pumping three times a day when you're at work--preferably at the same
times she would normally nurse--until your baby is 6 months old. After that,
when she's eating some solids, you can drop down to twice a day. (If you
continue to nurse in the morning and at night, in addition to pumping twice,
you should be able to maintain an adequate milk supply.)
Since pumping will probably consume most of
your break and lunch times, keep a supply of nutritious snacks at your desk so
you have the fuel you need to make milk. Haldeman recommends fruit, protein
bars, nuts and the nutritional drink Ensure. Also be sure to drink plenty of
water--at least eight glasses a day.
Myth #10: Breastfeeding your child for
more than one year makes weaning difficult. Truth: There is no evidence that
nursing for longer than one year will make weaning more difficult than if you
weaned earlier. "Babies are individuals, and some just want to nurse
longer than others," Lauwers says. Some children give it up on their own
at about 1 year of age, while others are content to nurse well past their
second birthday.
Lauwers recommends that you consider weaning
only when you and your baby are both ready for it. "But if you reach a
point where you no longer enjoy it, you may want to consider weaning to avoid
sending negative messages to your baby," she says.
The myth of sore nipples
Many women believe that sore nipples are an
inevitable part of breastfeeding. The fact is, such discomfort usually is the
result of an improper latch--and is therefore entirely preventable. Here's how
to get your baby latched on right.
- Before putting your baby on the breast, position her on her
side so she is directly facing you, with her belly touching yours.
- Prop up the baby with a pillow, if necessary, and hold her
up to your breast. Don't lean over toward her.
- Place your thumb and fingers around your areola (the dark
area around the nipple).
- Tilt your baby's head back slightly and tickle her lips
with your nipple until she opens her mouth wide.
- Help her "scoop" the breast into her mouth by
placing her lower jaw on the breast first, well below the nipple.
- Tilt her head forward, placing her upper jaw deeply on the
breast. Make sure she takes the entire nipple and at least 1 1/2 inches of the
areola in her mouth.
Dana Sullivan ignored the myth about difficult
weaning: She nursed both of her children for more than one year.
COPYRIGHT 2004 Weider Publications
& COPYRIGHT 2004 Gale Group - reprinted
with permission from Fit Pregnancy, Feb-March, 2004 by Dana
Sullivan
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